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1. Face reality.
Ignoring your husband’s infidelity will only make matters worse.
2. Let him know you know.
Sometimes this alone is enough to make him stop.
3. Speak up and take a stand.
Make it clear that you disapprove and tell him you want it to stop.
4. Rely on your support team.
Confide in a trusted friend. Don’t try to go it alone.
5. Identify the underlying issues.
What are contributing factors to his infidelity?
6. Realistically evaluate your situation.
Consider all your options. Can the marriage be saved? Or is it beyond repair?
7. Seek counseling for yourself and for your marriage.
Get professional help.
8. Protect yourself sexually.
Your health is at risk if he’s having unprotected sex.
9. Find out your legal rights.
Consult an attorney who specializes in matrimonial law and have him explain what you and the children are legally entitled to.
10. Put your financial house in order.
Take a realistic look at your current financial situation and make the necessary adjustments.
11. Equip yourself to earn a living.
Don’t stay just because you’re financially dependent on your cheating mate.
12. Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally.
Accept the possibility that your marriage may end, and begin formulating a workable strategy now.
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March 19th, 2009Uncategorized1. Face reality.