After many years of marriage, most couples become used to each others’ routines and habits. But if suddenly you start to notice changes in the usual patterns you may suspect that you have a cheating husband. What signs should you look out for?

The golden excuse of cheating men is that they are working late, or something came up. If a man uses the good old working late excuse one time, chances are it could be possible. But do not become immersed in his lying ways! No man works late every single day, or uses his day off to go out to the office to check some things out. Do not be blind sighted by the classic working late excuse. Try something inventive when you call your man and he says he’s working late. Offer to bring him dinner, since the day has been so long for him. If your husband stammers and tells you not to bother something is not right.
Gather together all of your husbands pay stubs to see if there is any money that has somehow magically disappeared. Question, your husbands spending habits in a nonchalant manner. If he becomes outraged and starts asking you questions back, he is definitely trying to cover for something. Ask for receipts, you guys are married and share finances, asking for a receipt should not be a problem at all. That is not a problem for an honest man.

Another dead giveaway is if he hides his phone bill when it arrives or mysteriously has another phone. Pay-as-you go phones don’t have an itemized bill. You may catch him sending text messages which he suddenly switches off when you enter the room.

If your husband has made pushing his buttons an easy task lately. This may be a positive sign of cheating as well. Many men will cause a fight in means to get away. If your husband is starting a senseless fight with you and leaving for hours at a time afterward, this behavior should sound an alarm in your mind.